If you love to wake up to the sounds of nature like to a chirping birdsong or to a gentle sunrise, then the natural sunlight alarm clocks could be just for you. These wonderful devices simulate sunset and sunrise right inside your bedroom. Why do we need it? How does it affect our health?
Most people feel great and active during the sunny days of spring and summer when they get enough of natural light. In the winter, however, the short, dark days can cause health problems. This is where the natural sunlight alarm clocks can truly help.
When in winter, natural light is very limited. Thus, many are expected to gain weight and to have trouble waking up in the morning. In contrary to the upbeat mood in summer, many people feel moody and lethargic.
The problem is solved with the sunlight alarm clocks. The basic idea behind natural sunlight alarm clocks is actually simple. It uses natural light and sounds to simulate nature's way of waking you up and letting you fall asleep. Different kinds of nature's sounds will start to play on a predetermined time while gradually turning on the brightness of the light. After 30 minutes or minutes, depending on your inputted plan, the clock will reach full brightness. This type of natural alarm clock is beneficial for people who suffer from a seasonal affective disorder during winter.
You need to pay special attention to the details and features before purchasing this kind of alarm clock. There are actually many factors in a natural sunlight alarm clock that requires your consideration. First, the lamp installed inside the unit should be bright enough to wake you up else it rather be considered useless. In fact, many intelligent makers have a recent solution to this problem. Instead of relying on a large wattage bulb installed inside the clock which may cause heat issues, they included a wall plug that you can plug your own lamp into. Now, you can easily plug your lamp into this device and then plug it into the wall. When it comes to efficiency and flexibility in doing its job, the lamp in your clock, systematically fades in and out to imitate sunrise and sunset. You are not tied to the internal lamp of the clock which is a great thing because those lamps don't last forever.
Next, many people also need sounds to wake up in the morning. To achieve this, a good natural sunlight alarm clock will have built-in natural sounds to wake you up. Typical sounds include that of the ocean, the rain sounds, and the wind. In addition to nature's sounds, some units allow you to load your mp3 music files into them for added flexibility. Furthermore, the standard AM/FM radio is included in some alarm clocks. If you live in an area with bad reception, you'll be thankful for the built in nature sounds and the choice to use your own mp3 files.
In conclusion, you'll be truly thankful of the natural sunlight alarm clock as it does not only feature natural lights and sounds in your mornings, you'll also feel great with a healthy you waking up every morning.
Friday, July 24, 2009
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Scare and Glam Through Costumes
Adults keep tricks and testing aside during Halloween. They don't like to move hither and thither for candies and would not roam around in the neighborhood for that when they already have lots to enjoy. Some do so while in the company of children or parents. They do the antics with their neighborhood for fun. There are much to explore in Halloween which adults don't really spare. Invitations to costume parties organized by colleagues in the clubs are attractive packages they wouldn't miss. Adult Halloween costumes depict mood of celebrities, politicians and sexy vixens. The National Retail Federation has found that spending on Halloween decoration, Halloween adult costumes, candy and such items has grown up in the US even though there is no sound growth in economy.
The National Retail Federation's Halloween Consumer Intentions and Actions Survey conducted by BIG research showed that there are more consumers who celebrated the holiday in 2008 compared to 2007 (64.5% vs. 58.7%). Costumed adults in Halloween sexy costumes or the Halloween men's costumes can be seen raking in the most in sales. Costumes for adults are just not about being scary, its also about giving these adults an opportunity to become someone else- a figure or fantasy that they have always wanted to be.
Economic slowdown hardly have a say in lessening the spirit of Halloween. People enjoy this festival with good spirit and forget their worries to enjoy fun for which they longed. Americans consider Halloween a festival to be celebrated with much fun although its treatment is not similar in other parts of the glob. Historically Halloween grew with the advent of Christianity across the Europe. Traditional Christian festivals including All Saints' Day were boosted with folk and traditions beliefs. Interestingly the evening following All Saints' Day was originally named "All Hallows Eve" then which later became Halloween. Its meaning was developed to streamline sanctified approach. Migrants played key role in brining Halloween into North American region although English North Americans of New England Puritans didn't agree with it. Irish immigrants in Southern colonies boosted it by observing holiday on Halloween. Resultantly this tradition spread faster in 19th century. Today Halloween has emerged tremendously. It is celebrated happily by children who are thankful to their forefather immigrants for introducing it into their culture.
Although many Halloween traditions are in practice on annual basis but the history behind it is hardly known to everybody. The activities like carving pumpkins or dressing like ghosts and goblins are common but why these traditions are in practice is not known to all. Only small number of participants knows the actual reason behind it. Dressing up in ghostly costumes or Halloween sexy costumes are common practice in each Halloween party. They are rather primary charm of Halloween festival.
The custom of dressing up in unique Halloween costume roots back to European and Celtic cultures. A belief prevailed then that ghosts and restless souls would come on earth on Halloween. Such assumptions were whenever this situation arises ghosts must be scared in unique manner by countering through 'other ghouls and ghosts' which humans used to become through special dressing. They used to arrange bones for keeping them away and reached out to specific places and left their homes barren. No ghost should recognize humans hence they dressed up peculiarly to confuse actual ghosts. It was performed to create confusion amongst the ghosts who would consider humans their fellow ghosts in utter mistake. It was interesting presumption and unique method to keep evil spirits away from entering into their own homes. Even food items were kept outside homes to further appease the ghosts and preventing them not to enter into their houses. The tradition of adult costumes for Halloween and dressing up like ghosts were brainchild of such peculiar scary costumes.
Halloween will continue to appeal to people of all ages in America as it provides a gateway to break free from the daily stresses of life and become someone else. Holidays give a positive effect on people and it can be either mentally or physically though physical improvement in terms of a good rest and a refreshed feeling is what most people get from a holiday. So no matter if it's Christmas or Hanukkah or Halloween or Easter, take this time to rest, relax and spend time with your loved ones.
The National Retail Federation's Halloween Consumer Intentions and Actions Survey conducted by BIG research showed that there are more consumers who celebrated the holiday in 2008 compared to 2007 (64.5% vs. 58.7%). Costumed adults in Halloween sexy costumes or the Halloween men's costumes can be seen raking in the most in sales. Costumes for adults are just not about being scary, its also about giving these adults an opportunity to become someone else- a figure or fantasy that they have always wanted to be.
Economic slowdown hardly have a say in lessening the spirit of Halloween. People enjoy this festival with good spirit and forget their worries to enjoy fun for which they longed. Americans consider Halloween a festival to be celebrated with much fun although its treatment is not similar in other parts of the glob. Historically Halloween grew with the advent of Christianity across the Europe. Traditional Christian festivals including All Saints' Day were boosted with folk and traditions beliefs. Interestingly the evening following All Saints' Day was originally named "All Hallows Eve" then which later became Halloween. Its meaning was developed to streamline sanctified approach. Migrants played key role in brining Halloween into North American region although English North Americans of New England Puritans didn't agree with it. Irish immigrants in Southern colonies boosted it by observing holiday on Halloween. Resultantly this tradition spread faster in 19th century. Today Halloween has emerged tremendously. It is celebrated happily by children who are thankful to their forefather immigrants for introducing it into their culture.
Although many Halloween traditions are in practice on annual basis but the history behind it is hardly known to everybody. The activities like carving pumpkins or dressing like ghosts and goblins are common but why these traditions are in practice is not known to all. Only small number of participants knows the actual reason behind it. Dressing up in ghostly costumes or Halloween sexy costumes are common practice in each Halloween party. They are rather primary charm of Halloween festival.
The custom of dressing up in unique Halloween costume roots back to European and Celtic cultures. A belief prevailed then that ghosts and restless souls would come on earth on Halloween. Such assumptions were whenever this situation arises ghosts must be scared in unique manner by countering through 'other ghouls and ghosts' which humans used to become through special dressing. They used to arrange bones for keeping them away and reached out to specific places and left their homes barren. No ghost should recognize humans hence they dressed up peculiarly to confuse actual ghosts. It was performed to create confusion amongst the ghosts who would consider humans their fellow ghosts in utter mistake. It was interesting presumption and unique method to keep evil spirits away from entering into their own homes. Even food items were kept outside homes to further appease the ghosts and preventing them not to enter into their houses. The tradition of adult costumes for Halloween and dressing up like ghosts were brainchild of such peculiar scary costumes.
Halloween will continue to appeal to people of all ages in America as it provides a gateway to break free from the daily stresses of life and become someone else. Holidays give a positive effect on people and it can be either mentally or physically though physical improvement in terms of a good rest and a refreshed feeling is what most people get from a holiday. So no matter if it's Christmas or Hanukkah or Halloween or Easter, take this time to rest, relax and spend time with your loved ones.
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Grandparenting Tips
It is not always easy to be a grandparent. It can be difficult to get the time necessary with grandchildren in order to develop and maintain a healthy relationship with them. There are many things that grandparents can do to make this process go much smoother. Do not allow yourself to feel discouraged. Kids are busy with school and friends but there is always room for grandparents. There are so many ways to become part of their world without feeling like a nuisance. They are your family and it is understandable that you want to spend more time with them.
When it comes to younger grandchildren it is easier to spend time with them. Offer to babysit on a regular basis so that the parents get much needed time alone and you are then able to spend some time with the kids. It is important to see kids often if you live nearby. Try to visit them at least once a week. Connecting as they grow is vital and you will both benefit from it in so many ways. Play games, watch movies or play in the park together. It does not matter what you do with your grandchildren, as long as you are all enjoying your time together.
It is not always as easy to spend a significant amount of time with older children. They are often quite busy with school and friends. They can be on the go a whole lot. Kids spend a lot of time on the Internet, using email and text messaging. Get on their level by sending an email once a week to see how they are doing. Give them a phone call on their cell phone to touch base and ask what is new in their life. Just hearing from you often will make a great difference in the life of your grandchildren.
Organize an annual visit or stay at your home. Many grandchildren go to visit their grandparents for a few weeks when they are on school holidays for the summer. Consider something like that or perhaps you would find it beneficial to schedule a monthly dinner date. All it takes is for you to reach out and ensure that your grandchildren know how important it is to you that you spend some quality time together. Even teenagers appreciate their grandparents so get on their level if that is what it takes to relate to them.
If you do not live close to your grandchildren, set up a weekly date to have a visit via the Internet. Use a web cam or any instant message program in order to communicate in real time. It is the best way to bridge the gaps of distance. Technology has many fantastic uses, make it work for your needs. There is never a reason not to keep in touch. Being a good grandparent takes only the willingness to do so and taking that first step forward. Your grandchildren will appreciate it and value your time together just as much as you do.
When it comes to younger grandchildren it is easier to spend time with them. Offer to babysit on a regular basis so that the parents get much needed time alone and you are then able to spend some time with the kids. It is important to see kids often if you live nearby. Try to visit them at least once a week. Connecting as they grow is vital and you will both benefit from it in so many ways. Play games, watch movies or play in the park together. It does not matter what you do with your grandchildren, as long as you are all enjoying your time together.
It is not always as easy to spend a significant amount of time with older children. They are often quite busy with school and friends. They can be on the go a whole lot. Kids spend a lot of time on the Internet, using email and text messaging. Get on their level by sending an email once a week to see how they are doing. Give them a phone call on their cell phone to touch base and ask what is new in their life. Just hearing from you often will make a great difference in the life of your grandchildren.
Organize an annual visit or stay at your home. Many grandchildren go to visit their grandparents for a few weeks when they are on school holidays for the summer. Consider something like that or perhaps you would find it beneficial to schedule a monthly dinner date. All it takes is for you to reach out and ensure that your grandchildren know how important it is to you that you spend some quality time together. Even teenagers appreciate their grandparents so get on their level if that is what it takes to relate to them.
If you do not live close to your grandchildren, set up a weekly date to have a visit via the Internet. Use a web cam or any instant message program in order to communicate in real time. It is the best way to bridge the gaps of distance. Technology has many fantastic uses, make it work for your needs. There is never a reason not to keep in touch. Being a good grandparent takes only the willingness to do so and taking that first step forward. Your grandchildren will appreciate it and value your time together just as much as you do.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Things to Consider Before Buying a Home Water Treatment System
The apparent rise in the number of people installing whole-house water treatment systems is a reflection of their concerns over the purity of our tap water. Don't get me wrong it's still safe to drink by and large, but having an extra layer of defense is good insurance.
Maybe you are wondering well, where do I start and what are some of the questions about a home water treatment system that I should ask? This article will discuss some of the more salient points to consider.
One being how long is the product going to last or, it's expected lifetime. The cheapest may look more attractive as we are increasingly mindful of what we spend, but is it really the cheapest option over the life of the product.
Coupled to this is the all important warranty. You really need to know the period
of time it covers and what it includes, as some are sneaky at imposing conditions that excludes the repair or replacement of the most expensive components.
Crucial information from the householders perspective when choosing the right home water treatment system is to consider, whether all the water entering your house is to be treated or just the amount that you drink.
The fact is that only about one per cent of it is used for cooking and drinking. One other important factor linked in with this last point is knowing which problem contaminant is affecting your supply.
Sure, not often an easy one to answer as some of these substances can do as much harm to us inhaled or through skin absorption, as being swallowed. If it's that bad you should be thinking about treating all the water which enters your home.
Lastly are there any hidden costs? Can I do everything myself, which when you think about it is quite a list. It includes installation, servicing and maintenance of the system plus if filters are used, how often do they need to be changed.
Costing it all out to get a truer picture of the final and ongoing costs can seem like a bit of a chore but as we're all watching what we spend, it could be worth doing.
As manufacturers of whole-house water treatment systems release more products to reflect rising demand the time spent learning a little bit about them, will put you at an advantage compared to the rest of us.
Have a browse on my own water filter site for the latest on how and where to find some of the best value for money water filters available.
Maybe you are wondering well, where do I start and what are some of the questions about a home water treatment system that I should ask? This article will discuss some of the more salient points to consider.
One being how long is the product going to last or, it's expected lifetime. The cheapest may look more attractive as we are increasingly mindful of what we spend, but is it really the cheapest option over the life of the product.
Coupled to this is the all important warranty. You really need to know the period
of time it covers and what it includes, as some are sneaky at imposing conditions that excludes the repair or replacement of the most expensive components.
Crucial information from the householders perspective when choosing the right home water treatment system is to consider, whether all the water entering your house is to be treated or just the amount that you drink.
The fact is that only about one per cent of it is used for cooking and drinking. One other important factor linked in with this last point is knowing which problem contaminant is affecting your supply.
Sure, not often an easy one to answer as some of these substances can do as much harm to us inhaled or through skin absorption, as being swallowed. If it's that bad you should be thinking about treating all the water which enters your home.
Lastly are there any hidden costs? Can I do everything myself, which when you think about it is quite a list. It includes installation, servicing and maintenance of the system plus if filters are used, how often do they need to be changed.
Costing it all out to get a truer picture of the final and ongoing costs can seem like a bit of a chore but as we're all watching what we spend, it could be worth doing.
As manufacturers of whole-house water treatment systems release more products to reflect rising demand the time spent learning a little bit about them, will put you at an advantage compared to the rest of us.
Have a browse on my own water filter site for the latest on how and where to find some of the best value for money water filters available.
Affording a New Swimming Pool
Splashing around in the summer sun is a great way to cool down and relieve stress. The only problem is that a swimming pool can be quite a hefty expense. In addition to finding ways to afford a new pool, it's also essential to narrow down the types of pools that are available.
The Above Ground Pool
There's no doubt that above-ground pools are less expensive than in-ground pools. However, there are some things to consider before installing an above-ground pool. The major drawbacks of above-ground pools are:
- They are generally smaller
- They do not last as long as in-ground pools
- They tend to rip and tear after years of use
- They are not aesthetically pleasing
Then again, above-ground pools also have these advantages:
- They are in-expensive
- Portable
- Easy to install
- Easy to maintain
The In-Ground Pool
In-ground pools tend to have many different advantages and disadvantages too, though the number one disadvantage is the cost of an in-ground pool.
In addition to the initial cost of the pool, there are other costs including maintenance, cleaning, and electricity costs. Also, consider:
- Not portable
- if you sell your home, your pool can't be moved
- Too large for small yards
Advantages of an in-ground pool include:
- They add value to your home
- They can be considered an investment
- They are sturdy
Expense
Spending your retirement or savings on a pool may sound like a great idea, but there is a better way to install the pool of your dreams without going broke.
Obtaining a loan in order to install a pool is a fantastic way to purchase the pool that you want without spending all of your money. Traditional banks aren't too quick to approve loans for pool installation, but private lenders are more than willing to offer you the loan that you need.
A private car title loan may be the thing that you are looking for if you want a quick and painless way to gather funds for your new pool. If you own your own car, you can probably gain a car title loan that can be used towards installing your pool. Turning your watery summertime dreams into a reality is easy when you know what kind of pool you are looking for, and where to find the money to put towards that pool - summertime is here, so what are you waiting for?
The Above Ground Pool
There's no doubt that above-ground pools are less expensive than in-ground pools. However, there are some things to consider before installing an above-ground pool. The major drawbacks of above-ground pools are:
- They are generally smaller
- They do not last as long as in-ground pools
- They tend to rip and tear after years of use
- They are not aesthetically pleasing
Then again, above-ground pools also have these advantages:
- They are in-expensive
- Portable
- Easy to install
- Easy to maintain
The In-Ground Pool
In-ground pools tend to have many different advantages and disadvantages too, though the number one disadvantage is the cost of an in-ground pool.
In addition to the initial cost of the pool, there are other costs including maintenance, cleaning, and electricity costs. Also, consider:
- Not portable
- if you sell your home, your pool can't be moved
- Too large for small yards
Advantages of an in-ground pool include:
- They add value to your home
- They can be considered an investment
- They are sturdy
Expense
Spending your retirement or savings on a pool may sound like a great idea, but there is a better way to install the pool of your dreams without going broke.
Obtaining a loan in order to install a pool is a fantastic way to purchase the pool that you want without spending all of your money. Traditional banks aren't too quick to approve loans for pool installation, but private lenders are more than willing to offer you the loan that you need.
A private car title loan may be the thing that you are looking for if you want a quick and painless way to gather funds for your new pool. If you own your own car, you can probably gain a car title loan that can be used towards installing your pool. Turning your watery summertime dreams into a reality is easy when you know what kind of pool you are looking for, and where to find the money to put towards that pool - summertime is here, so what are you waiting for?
Friday, July 10, 2009
Ipe Furniture is where Style Meets Durability
We all know the trouble with many kinds of outdoor furniture: within a year or two, it begins showing signs of major wear and tear. While part of the purpose of things like outdoor chairs, loungers, tables and other pieces is strictly utilitarian - we need them to sit on, dine at and otherwise be useful - another part is purely aesthetic. Most people don't want outdoor furniture that is unattractive; well-designed and visually pleasing furniture can enhance a yard's overall look. Furniture made out of Ipe excels on both counts, providing exceptional durability and stunningly gorgeous looks to discerning homeowners.
Ipe: Naturally Perfect For Outdoor Furniture
The innate qualities of Ipe hardwood - which is found in South America - lend themselves amazingly well for use in outdoor furniture. This wood has a fine grained texture, making it resistant to wetness without the need for harsh stains or sealants. It is very dense, giving it an unbelievable strong composition which can withstand many types of abuse. Ipe furniture can survive countless seasons of use - coming out at the other side looking as great as did did the first day it was brought home.
Not only does Ipe have a great natural durability and a texture that keeps it looking exceptionally good, but it is also resistant to many other problems other materials routinely fall victim to. With Ipe, UV degradation is never a concern; Ipe furniture can be arranged in sunny locations just as well as shadier ones. Ipe resists rot better than other hardwoods - even those that have been treated with sealants or stains. Finally, Ipe furniture can hold up against a vast number of outdoor pests, so that the chair you sit in doesn't become compromised by voracious termites or other insects.
The Rich Look Of Ipe Furniture
Whether it be a deck chair, lounger, outdoor dining set or other type of furniture, Ipe furniture can complement the looks of a yard and a home like no other material can. With Ipe, there is no need to paint or otherwise alter the appearance of the wood - it naturally has a rich color that is certain to become a stunning fixture on any patio, deck or porch.
Compared with outdoor furniture made of synthetic or composite materials, Ipe furniture definitely wins in the style category. Classic designs are enhanced with stainless steel hardware that sets off the sumptuous appeal of the wood's grain in an impeccable way. Ipe lends itself well to carpentry, and can be carved into many pleasing shapes and styles by the skilled hands of professional artisans.
Homeowners who want to put an exclamation point on the already-gorgeous appearance of their landscaping should carefully consider which type of furniture to use. Unlike many other types of outdoor furniture, Ipe furniture is never tacky or unattractive; it can survive the elements like no other natural hardwood. There's absolutely no question that Ipe furniture is a wise investment for any homeowner who values craftsmanship, style and durability.
Ipe: Naturally Perfect For Outdoor Furniture
The innate qualities of Ipe hardwood - which is found in South America - lend themselves amazingly well for use in outdoor furniture. This wood has a fine grained texture, making it resistant to wetness without the need for harsh stains or sealants. It is very dense, giving it an unbelievable strong composition which can withstand many types of abuse. Ipe furniture can survive countless seasons of use - coming out at the other side looking as great as did did the first day it was brought home.
Not only does Ipe have a great natural durability and a texture that keeps it looking exceptionally good, but it is also resistant to many other problems other materials routinely fall victim to. With Ipe, UV degradation is never a concern; Ipe furniture can be arranged in sunny locations just as well as shadier ones. Ipe resists rot better than other hardwoods - even those that have been treated with sealants or stains. Finally, Ipe furniture can hold up against a vast number of outdoor pests, so that the chair you sit in doesn't become compromised by voracious termites or other insects.
The Rich Look Of Ipe Furniture
Whether it be a deck chair, lounger, outdoor dining set or other type of furniture, Ipe furniture can complement the looks of a yard and a home like no other material can. With Ipe, there is no need to paint or otherwise alter the appearance of the wood - it naturally has a rich color that is certain to become a stunning fixture on any patio, deck or porch.
Compared with outdoor furniture made of synthetic or composite materials, Ipe furniture definitely wins in the style category. Classic designs are enhanced with stainless steel hardware that sets off the sumptuous appeal of the wood's grain in an impeccable way. Ipe lends itself well to carpentry, and can be carved into many pleasing shapes and styles by the skilled hands of professional artisans.
Homeowners who want to put an exclamation point on the already-gorgeous appearance of their landscaping should carefully consider which type of furniture to use. Unlike many other types of outdoor furniture, Ipe furniture is never tacky or unattractive; it can survive the elements like no other natural hardwood. There's absolutely no question that Ipe furniture is a wise investment for any homeowner who values craftsmanship, style and durability.
Thursday, July 9, 2009
New York City Facelift2009
NY City Face Lift
The NY City Facelift is becoming one of the hottest facial rejuvenation procedures requested. Though in the past the over-corrected or "plastic" look was all too common, today, a talented surgeon can produce pretty, natural-looking results with meticulous attention to tightening and repositioning muscle and skin, as well as sculpting and repositioning facial fat. Many patients look as much 5-10 years younger.
Friends often will not know about your facelift unless you tell them. They're going to recognize that you look better but they won't know why. They will ask if you've been on vacation. Did you lose weight? What exercise program are you on? With today's new surgical systems and technology, facelifts now go on more than ever before.
The basic idea behind a NY City Facelift is to remove excess skin that is loose and sagging on face and the neck, and to tighten the underlying tissue. The surplus skin that is removed never returns, so you may always look younger than you would have without surgery. The skin does continue to age, however. When new sagging develops, you may, if you select, have a minor "tuck-up" process to correct it.
It's important not to plunge into the choice to have plastic surgery. Debate your options with your GP, who may be able to suggest a credible surgeon or advise you on how to choose a hospital to be treated in.
Before selecting a NY City Facelift, debate with your surgeon what you are hoping to gain from the operation and the results you can realistically expect. A facelift will not affect the fine lines around your lips
What are the choices to The NY City Facelift surgery?
Other treatments might be used either as choices, or in combination with a facelift.
?Resurfacing techniques reduce surface wrinkles and can smooth the skin by removing damaged outer layers. Options include chemical peels and laser resurfacing.
?Pulsed light treatment excites the middle layer of the skin to supply more collagen, which plumps out fine lines and wrinkles.
?Tissue augmentation plumps out deep wrinkles with injections of collagen or other sorts of filler.
Botulinum poison injections can flatten out wrinkles that appear in your skin when you grin or frown. This is very appropriate for forehead lines around your eyes.
?Creams, gels and beauty products may help tighten your skin. However, there is no systematic explanation that these work.
More About NY City Facelift surgery Click Here!
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The NY City Facelift is becoming one of the hottest facial rejuvenation procedures requested. Though in the past the over-corrected or "plastic" look was all too common, today, a talented surgeon can produce pretty, natural-looking results with meticulous attention to tightening and repositioning muscle and skin, as well as sculpting and repositioning facial fat. Many patients look as much 5-10 years younger.
Friends often will not know about your facelift unless you tell them. They're going to recognize that you look better but they won't know why. They will ask if you've been on vacation. Did you lose weight? What exercise program are you on? With today's new surgical systems and technology, facelifts now go on more than ever before.
The basic idea behind a NY City Facelift is to remove excess skin that is loose and sagging on face and the neck, and to tighten the underlying tissue. The surplus skin that is removed never returns, so you may always look younger than you would have without surgery. The skin does continue to age, however. When new sagging develops, you may, if you select, have a minor "tuck-up" process to correct it.
It's important not to plunge into the choice to have plastic surgery. Debate your options with your GP, who may be able to suggest a credible surgeon or advise you on how to choose a hospital to be treated in.
Before selecting a NY City Facelift, debate with your surgeon what you are hoping to gain from the operation and the results you can realistically expect. A facelift will not affect the fine lines around your lips
What are the choices to The NY City Facelift surgery?
Other treatments might be used either as choices, or in combination with a facelift.
?Resurfacing techniques reduce surface wrinkles and can smooth the skin by removing damaged outer layers. Options include chemical peels and laser resurfacing.
?Pulsed light treatment excites the middle layer of the skin to supply more collagen, which plumps out fine lines and wrinkles.
?Tissue augmentation plumps out deep wrinkles with injections of collagen or other sorts of filler.
Botulinum poison injections can flatten out wrinkles that appear in your skin when you grin or frown. This is very appropriate for forehead lines around your eyes.
?Creams, gels and beauty products may help tighten your skin. However, there is no systematic explanation that these work.
More About NY City Facelift surgery Click Here!
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Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Do You Want Cleaner Water? Home Water Treatment Systems Might Be The Answer
Using home water treatment products in your kitchen is very important. People don't just drink the water from their kitchen faucet, they cook with it and make ice with it. It is important to use home water treatment systems in the kitchen for this reason.
Treating all of your kitchen water ensures that the water you consume and cook with is safe for your consumption.
Many people think that they only need to use home water treatment systems in their kitchen. However, it is important to use water treatment products in your bathroom as well. Bathing in contaminated water can have harsh effects on your skin and hair.
The chemicals in water can strip the natural oils from your skin and lead to many skin ailments. Some companies make shower head home water treatment systems to filter the water before you bathe in it.
Using point of entry home water treatment systems is one way to get clean healthy water. However, it is often far more efficient to have a whole house water treatment system. Whole house water treatment products filter the water at the source.
So, no water is delivered to any water faucet or water consuming appliance without being filtered first. Although such systems are a big investment, they are more economical in the long run.
Once many people start filtering their water they want clean water where ever they go. There are water treatment products that allow people to have clean water on the go. Many companies make portable water filtration systems so you can clean water while you are away from the house. Often these water treatment products come in the shape of a water bottle so they are easy to take along with you.
Buying and using home water treatment systems and other water treatment products is beneficial to your health. Many people report a drastic improvement in their overall sense of well-being after they begin consuming and using cleansed water on a daily basis. Investing in quality water treatment products may initially be expensive but over the long haul they pay off with better health and peace of mind.
Cut out all the hard work about finding out where to locate good equipment by visiting my main water site. I also provide reasons why pure, clean water is so essential in our lives.
Treating all of your kitchen water ensures that the water you consume and cook with is safe for your consumption.
Many people think that they only need to use home water treatment systems in their kitchen. However, it is important to use water treatment products in your bathroom as well. Bathing in contaminated water can have harsh effects on your skin and hair.
The chemicals in water can strip the natural oils from your skin and lead to many skin ailments. Some companies make shower head home water treatment systems to filter the water before you bathe in it.
Using point of entry home water treatment systems is one way to get clean healthy water. However, it is often far more efficient to have a whole house water treatment system. Whole house water treatment products filter the water at the source.
So, no water is delivered to any water faucet or water consuming appliance without being filtered first. Although such systems are a big investment, they are more economical in the long run.
Once many people start filtering their water they want clean water where ever they go. There are water treatment products that allow people to have clean water on the go. Many companies make portable water filtration systems so you can clean water while you are away from the house. Often these water treatment products come in the shape of a water bottle so they are easy to take along with you.
Buying and using home water treatment systems and other water treatment products is beneficial to your health. Many people report a drastic improvement in their overall sense of well-being after they begin consuming and using cleansed water on a daily basis. Investing in quality water treatment products may initially be expensive but over the long haul they pay off with better health and peace of mind.
Cut out all the hard work about finding out where to locate good equipment by visiting my main water site. I also provide reasons why pure, clean water is so essential in our lives.
Sunday, July 5, 2009
How To Can Food
Many people will produce their own vegetables because they do not use any hurtful chemicals to grow them. Other people will develop them because they enjoy the entire process and they wish to preserve money from having to buy them from the grocery store. What we want to know is what do these people do once they are all grown.
One of the better methods that you are able to preserve this food is to jar it. There is a unique procedure named water canning that if done properly will preserve the food for as long as you need them without them getting ruined or going bad. All you call for are your vegetables, cans, and hot water.
In order to keep the food you need to ensure that germs do not produce on them. These germs are what causes the food to spoil and go bad. The first stp you should do is to cut up your veggies so that they can fit inside of the can that you need to use. Ensure that both the jars and lids are able to be cooked in extremely hot temperatures.
Put the veggies in the cans and make sure that you put air tight lids on them. These will make sure that nothing can get in or out of them. When they are closed you have to put the jar into boiling water. Keep it in till you know that it has killed off all of the existing germs that have been sealed within it.
Water canning is very effective and is utilized by commercial businesses. Once they are properly closed and cooked you will have the ability to put them in your cellar, basement, or pantry.
One of the better methods that you are able to preserve this food is to jar it. There is a unique procedure named water canning that if done properly will preserve the food for as long as you need them without them getting ruined or going bad. All you call for are your vegetables, cans, and hot water.
In order to keep the food you need to ensure that germs do not produce on them. These germs are what causes the food to spoil and go bad. The first stp you should do is to cut up your veggies so that they can fit inside of the can that you need to use. Ensure that both the jars and lids are able to be cooked in extremely hot temperatures.
Put the veggies in the cans and make sure that you put air tight lids on them. These will make sure that nothing can get in or out of them. When they are closed you have to put the jar into boiling water. Keep it in till you know that it has killed off all of the existing germs that have been sealed within it.
Water canning is very effective and is utilized by commercial businesses. Once they are properly closed and cooked you will have the ability to put them in your cellar, basement, or pantry.
Saving Money Requires Patience
Patience is a virtue. It takes some character to exhibit such levels of moral excellence, but did you know that by doing so, you could save money at the same time? Read on to find out how you can economize by emanating the virtue of patience.
Have the patience to walk instead of drive. It saves you gas, parking and the stresses of driving. Walking improves your health and well being while saving gas money.
Be patient: compare before you buy. From personal clothing to health club memberships, from plumbing services to insurance plans, from car accessories to a new home; compare the offers of 3 to 5 suppliers or service providers before finally settling with one. Let them know that you are taking the time to search the market and they may just be able to offer you the best savings. Truly, the patient consumer is a winner!
Use coupons as much as possible. Be patient in cutting them out and going through them before making any purchase. Pack them together with your grocery bag or in the car so you can use the discount voucher at every opportunity. One can save $20 - $50, just by using the coupons.
Track your expenses. Have the patience to keep your receipts and record all your expenses, no matter how small or frequently they occur. By doing so, you are made aware of where every single penny goes. Furthermore, you will know when you have spent too much on clothing, when in fact you still need to settle your credit card balance, or pay the mortgage. You will have a better hold of your financial health, by patiently tracking your finances.
Hold-off and sleep on it! If you are about to purchase a $100 item, hold off the purchase until you've given it much thought, say sleeping on it for 1-2 nights. If after such time, you decide that you absolutely need and can afford the purchase, then go ahead. Nevertheless, you'll be surprised at how much you can save by just sleeping and thinking things over.
Devote money in long-term investment. Understand that when you take up long-term investment, you do not need the money for now, and it is not considered as part of your daily finances. However, such money when set-aside will reap great rewards in the future.
Exude moral excellence by patiently saving for years to come, starting today!
Have the patience to walk instead of drive. It saves you gas, parking and the stresses of driving. Walking improves your health and well being while saving gas money.
Be patient: compare before you buy. From personal clothing to health club memberships, from plumbing services to insurance plans, from car accessories to a new home; compare the offers of 3 to 5 suppliers or service providers before finally settling with one. Let them know that you are taking the time to search the market and they may just be able to offer you the best savings. Truly, the patient consumer is a winner!
Use coupons as much as possible. Be patient in cutting them out and going through them before making any purchase. Pack them together with your grocery bag or in the car so you can use the discount voucher at every opportunity. One can save $20 - $50, just by using the coupons.
Track your expenses. Have the patience to keep your receipts and record all your expenses, no matter how small or frequently they occur. By doing so, you are made aware of where every single penny goes. Furthermore, you will know when you have spent too much on clothing, when in fact you still need to settle your credit card balance, or pay the mortgage. You will have a better hold of your financial health, by patiently tracking your finances.
Hold-off and sleep on it! If you are about to purchase a $100 item, hold off the purchase until you've given it much thought, say sleeping on it for 1-2 nights. If after such time, you decide that you absolutely need and can afford the purchase, then go ahead. Nevertheless, you'll be surprised at how much you can save by just sleeping and thinking things over.
Devote money in long-term investment. Understand that when you take up long-term investment, you do not need the money for now, and it is not considered as part of your daily finances. However, such money when set-aside will reap great rewards in the future.
Exude moral excellence by patiently saving for years to come, starting today!
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Planning Your Financial Future
Have you reached the point when merely looking at your bank statements you get a headache already? You might find your records out of place. You might even find yourself lost as to your current status and accounts. However, this is not a point for you to simply fret.
Now, you have to take the matters to your own hand.
Saving Money
Saving money is an important matter. It is something that you have to do regularly to come up with a considerable amount. With the current trends of the economy and the widespread consumerism, it has to be part of your lifestyle as it is your way to ensure a brighter future.
Banking
Most people who really want to save would maintain a savings account in a bank rather than put it in a money box or under a pillow at home. Putting the money in the bank is really a prudent move. The money is in safekeeping. It is not within your immediate reach, thus it is not within your immediate disposal. It can even earn interest.
Banking Strategy for More Savings
This means organizing your finances. This is where you look at your status, plan ways to improve your standing and make terms work for your benefit.
Savings Account
Having a savings account is definitely a sure way of getting assistance in your pursuit to save. However, you must be doing the right thing. Your money must really stay there. You actually have to maintain a certain amount to earn interest with your account.
If you cannot keep yourself from withdrawing, hide your ATM card. This defeats your goal to save and too many withdrawals will incur you fees.
Long-Term Deposits
Should it prove difficult to keep your savings account balance intact, you can opt to long-term deposits. This is where a certificate of deposit is given to you in exchange of a certain amount of your money. You can get higher interest rate here, so your money can earn more. You are also not allowed to get back the money within a certain period or else you have to pay a fine. The fine should be deterrent enough to keep from spending.
Features and Offers
Identify among the various banks out there. Consider the features they provide to clients. One bank will offer higher interest rates although you may feel more secure with another bank. Some also give special offers for a certain period. Simply know your options and study the information carefully before making a decision.
Now, you have to take the matters to your own hand.
Saving Money
Saving money is an important matter. It is something that you have to do regularly to come up with a considerable amount. With the current trends of the economy and the widespread consumerism, it has to be part of your lifestyle as it is your way to ensure a brighter future.
Banking
Most people who really want to save would maintain a savings account in a bank rather than put it in a money box or under a pillow at home. Putting the money in the bank is really a prudent move. The money is in safekeeping. It is not within your immediate reach, thus it is not within your immediate disposal. It can even earn interest.
Banking Strategy for More Savings
This means organizing your finances. This is where you look at your status, plan ways to improve your standing and make terms work for your benefit.
Savings Account
Having a savings account is definitely a sure way of getting assistance in your pursuit to save. However, you must be doing the right thing. Your money must really stay there. You actually have to maintain a certain amount to earn interest with your account.
If you cannot keep yourself from withdrawing, hide your ATM card. This defeats your goal to save and too many withdrawals will incur you fees.
Long-Term Deposits
Should it prove difficult to keep your savings account balance intact, you can opt to long-term deposits. This is where a certificate of deposit is given to you in exchange of a certain amount of your money. You can get higher interest rate here, so your money can earn more. You are also not allowed to get back the money within a certain period or else you have to pay a fine. The fine should be deterrent enough to keep from spending.
Features and Offers
Identify among the various banks out there. Consider the features they provide to clients. One bank will offer higher interest rates although you may feel more secure with another bank. Some also give special offers for a certain period. Simply know your options and study the information carefully before making a decision.
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Why Home Security Devices are a Wise Investment
For property protection, some properties have fences even perimeter walls surrounding them, and some homes rely on pets, especially dogs to ward off uninvited people while some use people called security guards or security personnel. Then there are those properties that utilize sophisticated equipments or instruments to protect them. Of course, there are those who utilize any combination of these or just utilizing all.
One cannot discount the fact that there is always a threat of intrusion to ones properties. That intrusion could be very dangerous as ones property can be emptied in no time incurring great losses. Theft may include furniture, equipments and other valuable items, including cash that may be present at that time whether in a vault or not. Don't discount that secrets may be stolen too such as theft of some personal tapes or CDs or even a desktop computer or a laptop that may contain valuable and confidential matters like passwords, security numbers and the like. Don't discount too the most bitter thing that can happen and that could be an attack on lives.
It goes back to the days of medieval times when they dug huge canals around the castles. At times these canals have dangerous creatures in them, too just as an added protection against intruders. With these kinds of protection plus the high walls and the guards above the walls, castles were formidable. But is there a company who offers such a protection system? In the first place, would you want to have a huge digging surrounding your property, and would it be easy to get permits for dangerous animals like piranhas or alligators to be used? Consider also that digging such huge canals to surround your property for protection would eat up a big portion of the property and this would be a useless portion unless it can be utilized as a swimming pool perhaps or as a fishpond. Well, why not if you would fancy it and you wouldn't mind the huge cost to it as you have to use tiles if used as a swimming pool?
But then, there were no planes or helicopters or even hang gliders that can be used to bypass any surrounding body of water unlike today and for this reason alone, utilizing the castle-like protection could be very impractical.
One of the best home security devices utilized these days is the use of burglar alarm systems. There are the mechanical types or the electrical/electronic ones or both; but, in most cases, a burglar alarm system refers to the electrical/electronic type.
Basically, a good home security alarm detects an intruder and sends out an appropriate signal or warning that it transmits either audibly to attract or give attention to what's happening or simply just to distract intruders or both which would have an end result of no loss either in property and lives. Apprehension of the intruder may not necessarily be achieved but the best home security may include that.
Burglar alarms may be hard wired or wireless. Wired burglar alarms are cheaper and are practical to use in small areas while wireless burglar alarm systems are practical for use in large areas or for longer linear perimeters. Both types have a central part although in the wireless burglar alarm systems each of the sensors may act as individual centrals by themselves.
The central part usually controls, receives and transmits signals. The other major parts are the individual sensors: switches (magnetic or trip switches or pressure switches), field sensors using sound or light waves, and many other types of sensors.
As mentioned, wireless burglar alarm systems may have sensors to act as individual centrals by themselves in that each sensors control themselves individually, transmit the intrusion signal or it may alarm by themselves, or could even receive commands remotely.
Wireless burglar alarm systems are easier to install, especially because one does not have to contend with laying down wires and in some cases fewer sensors may cover an area wherein plenty more sensors would be used for a wired system.
Wireless burglar alarm systems are easier DIY than the wired ones. One can just go to an electronic store and buy such a system which may consist of just one part to put on a wall or door or window or any areas to be protected. Keep in mind though that batteries may not be included when you buy such a system but it does need batteries and investment in these batteries are good for your wisely invested wireless burglar alarm system.
One cannot discount the fact that there is always a threat of intrusion to ones properties. That intrusion could be very dangerous as ones property can be emptied in no time incurring great losses. Theft may include furniture, equipments and other valuable items, including cash that may be present at that time whether in a vault or not. Don't discount that secrets may be stolen too such as theft of some personal tapes or CDs or even a desktop computer or a laptop that may contain valuable and confidential matters like passwords, security numbers and the like. Don't discount too the most bitter thing that can happen and that could be an attack on lives.
It goes back to the days of medieval times when they dug huge canals around the castles. At times these canals have dangerous creatures in them, too just as an added protection against intruders. With these kinds of protection plus the high walls and the guards above the walls, castles were formidable. But is there a company who offers such a protection system? In the first place, would you want to have a huge digging surrounding your property, and would it be easy to get permits for dangerous animals like piranhas or alligators to be used? Consider also that digging such huge canals to surround your property for protection would eat up a big portion of the property and this would be a useless portion unless it can be utilized as a swimming pool perhaps or as a fishpond. Well, why not if you would fancy it and you wouldn't mind the huge cost to it as you have to use tiles if used as a swimming pool?
But then, there were no planes or helicopters or even hang gliders that can be used to bypass any surrounding body of water unlike today and for this reason alone, utilizing the castle-like protection could be very impractical.
One of the best home security devices utilized these days is the use of burglar alarm systems. There are the mechanical types or the electrical/electronic ones or both; but, in most cases, a burglar alarm system refers to the electrical/electronic type.
Basically, a good home security alarm detects an intruder and sends out an appropriate signal or warning that it transmits either audibly to attract or give attention to what's happening or simply just to distract intruders or both which would have an end result of no loss either in property and lives. Apprehension of the intruder may not necessarily be achieved but the best home security may include that.
Burglar alarms may be hard wired or wireless. Wired burglar alarms are cheaper and are practical to use in small areas while wireless burglar alarm systems are practical for use in large areas or for longer linear perimeters. Both types have a central part although in the wireless burglar alarm systems each of the sensors may act as individual centrals by themselves.
The central part usually controls, receives and transmits signals. The other major parts are the individual sensors: switches (magnetic or trip switches or pressure switches), field sensors using sound or light waves, and many other types of sensors.
As mentioned, wireless burglar alarm systems may have sensors to act as individual centrals by themselves in that each sensors control themselves individually, transmit the intrusion signal or it may alarm by themselves, or could even receive commands remotely.
Wireless burglar alarm systems are easier to install, especially because one does not have to contend with laying down wires and in some cases fewer sensors may cover an area wherein plenty more sensors would be used for a wired system.
Wireless burglar alarm systems are easier DIY than the wired ones. One can just go to an electronic store and buy such a system which may consist of just one part to put on a wall or door or window or any areas to be protected. Keep in mind though that batteries may not be included when you buy such a system but it does need batteries and investment in these batteries are good for your wisely invested wireless burglar alarm system.
One of the Best Burglar Alarm Systems Around!
Burglar alarm systems come in two types in terms of how the sensors are connected in the system: wired and the wireless home security systems.
Wireless home security systems are varied depending on the detection methods used. There are those wireless home security alarms that utilize infrared beams that are activated when there is a 'cut' in the beam which is caused by something or someone interrupting the beam between its transmitting point and receiving point; and then there are those that use motion detection methods.
Two most common types of detection methods are the infrared beam field and the use of sound waves. Both would react to changes in field situations and that happens when there is movement inside that certain area being protected. Even a leaf floating in that field can be detected depending on the sensitivity settings. So animals in that area of protection would also be detected, which may give false alarms. There are more sophisticated motion detectors that can be adjusted to lessen if not totally eliminate false alarms caused by non human movements.
The above mentioned home security alarm devices can mostly be left unattended by the user. The best home security systems seem to have a life of their own that even without user attendance or presence it would signal an intrusion and transmit that intrusion appropriately.
One of the best burglar alarm systems around though integrates the use of cameras. These home surveillance camera systems aid greatly in recognizing or identifying the intruder, that can lead to his/her arrest as well as create evidence of the intrusion and other crimes that may be committed. There are wired home security cameras and there are wireless home security cameras. The wired ones are more convenient in terms of power supply to the camera while wireless ones have their own power sources by the use of batteries, thus, batteries must always be juiced up for normal functioning of the camera. There are motion security cameras though that turns on when motion is detected in its field of coverage and turns off for a certain delay if the motion detected is gone. This helps in the conservation of the power supplies. For wired home surveillance camera systems, wires are used to also feed the video to a recorder or video monitor or both while wireless home surveillance camera systems transmit through the air with certain transmission bandwidths.
Home surveillance camera systems are not only limited to the inside of the house. Outdoor home security cameras outside the gates or walls are used to outright identify people who might want to enter or are just trying to look for the residents. This is sometimes added with a separate intercom system to establish communication between the outside of the house and inside of the home without coming face to face with one another. This adds in the security of the residents avoiding possible threats of outright physical attacks.
Home surveillance camera systems used outside of the home are weather proofed since they are exposed to the elements of the weather. These include the wirings if wired ones are used.
Ordinary cameras may be used but for a better home surveillance camera system, night vision surveillance cameras may be used in order to have a better contrast or brightness of the field during darkness or with little light than when using ordinary cameras.
Home surveillance camera systems may either be connected to a video monitor or to a recorder or to both. Video recorders may be continuously running or turned on or off automatically by motion security cameras.
Home security systems with integrated home surveillance camera systems could very well be one of the best burglar systems around as there is added intruder identification possible and also existence of evidence of the intrusion and other crimes that could be committed.
Wireless home security systems are varied depending on the detection methods used. There are those wireless home security alarms that utilize infrared beams that are activated when there is a 'cut' in the beam which is caused by something or someone interrupting the beam between its transmitting point and receiving point; and then there are those that use motion detection methods.
Two most common types of detection methods are the infrared beam field and the use of sound waves. Both would react to changes in field situations and that happens when there is movement inside that certain area being protected. Even a leaf floating in that field can be detected depending on the sensitivity settings. So animals in that area of protection would also be detected, which may give false alarms. There are more sophisticated motion detectors that can be adjusted to lessen if not totally eliminate false alarms caused by non human movements.
The above mentioned home security alarm devices can mostly be left unattended by the user. The best home security systems seem to have a life of their own that even without user attendance or presence it would signal an intrusion and transmit that intrusion appropriately.
One of the best burglar alarm systems around though integrates the use of cameras. These home surveillance camera systems aid greatly in recognizing or identifying the intruder, that can lead to his/her arrest as well as create evidence of the intrusion and other crimes that may be committed. There are wired home security cameras and there are wireless home security cameras. The wired ones are more convenient in terms of power supply to the camera while wireless ones have their own power sources by the use of batteries, thus, batteries must always be juiced up for normal functioning of the camera. There are motion security cameras though that turns on when motion is detected in its field of coverage and turns off for a certain delay if the motion detected is gone. This helps in the conservation of the power supplies. For wired home surveillance camera systems, wires are used to also feed the video to a recorder or video monitor or both while wireless home surveillance camera systems transmit through the air with certain transmission bandwidths.
Home surveillance camera systems are not only limited to the inside of the house. Outdoor home security cameras outside the gates or walls are used to outright identify people who might want to enter or are just trying to look for the residents. This is sometimes added with a separate intercom system to establish communication between the outside of the house and inside of the home without coming face to face with one another. This adds in the security of the residents avoiding possible threats of outright physical attacks.
Home surveillance camera systems used outside of the home are weather proofed since they are exposed to the elements of the weather. These include the wirings if wired ones are used.
Ordinary cameras may be used but for a better home surveillance camera system, night vision surveillance cameras may be used in order to have a better contrast or brightness of the field during darkness or with little light than when using ordinary cameras.
Home surveillance camera systems may either be connected to a video monitor or to a recorder or to both. Video recorders may be continuously running or turned on or off automatically by motion security cameras.
Home security systems with integrated home surveillance camera systems could very well be one of the best burglar systems around as there is added intruder identification possible and also existence of evidence of the intrusion and other crimes that could be committed.
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
A Healthy Marriage Is One In Which You Keep The Right Balance - Here's How..
Anyone who really cares about their family life wants to maintain a healthy marriage - for the whole of their lives. It is often a matter of setting the right priorities so we can keep a sensible balance, that allows us to be the good spouse, or partner, we want to be.
Sometimes it's not always as simple as it first appears, and we have to focus on some issues which, at first glance, seem obvious but just get 'lost'.
It can be all too easy to forget that essential need to cultivate your relationship. Sometimes taking your partner for granted is very easy to do, but it's also easy to avoid - if you know how. To maintain a healthy marriage requires you to do some fundamental things. Here is just a few of them:
Take time to make time - for each other. Make time for your conversations, and in a place which is free from other distractions. The television can be a big distraction so try turning it off so you can develop a real conversation with your partner. There are lots of things you can do... maybe order yourselves a healthy takeaway so you can have a pleasant dinner with each other regularly. To make conversation more enjoyable get into the habit of sitting at a table too... because it makes it so much easier to converse properly than eating in an armchair!
Communicate effectively. The most important key to building a strong healthy relationship is communication. Effective communication requires you to be an ?active listener?, and that means listening without making up your mind, beforehand, on the outcome. Focus on what your partner is saying ?as well as expressing your own feelings in a constructive, honest and fair way.
Whatever you do, avoid being dismissive, ridiculing or rejecting your partner for what he, or she, may be saying. If you're feeling frustrated, and sense that you are getting angry, take a ?time-out', and agree to resume your conversation later.
Always play fair. Don?t expect to see eye to eye on everything because it just won?t happen. An important part of resolving conflicts is being respectful of your partner?s feelings, even when you are arguing. Even if you don't always agree on things you're discussing, let your partner know that you value what he, or she, is saying.
If you ever feel that you're 'losing it' and that you may physically harm your partner, give yourself some breathing space by walking away. If necessary seek some help and guidance straight away. You may invite a lot of trouble not to do so. Even though your temper may be getting frayed, step back and count to ten, or maybe even higher. It may stop you from doing something you might regret later.
Too summarize: remember to keep a smile on your face and take time out to smell the roses with each other. Work on communicating well; avoid being too critical, don?t ridicule and don?t reject or dismiss your partner out of hand. Just treat him, or her the way you want to be treated. With a large measure of dignity, fairness, respect. That way you will keep your sanity and have a lot more fun with each other!
Sometimes it's not always as simple as it first appears, and we have to focus on some issues which, at first glance, seem obvious but just get 'lost'.
It can be all too easy to forget that essential need to cultivate your relationship. Sometimes taking your partner for granted is very easy to do, but it's also easy to avoid - if you know how. To maintain a healthy marriage requires you to do some fundamental things. Here is just a few of them:
Take time to make time - for each other. Make time for your conversations, and in a place which is free from other distractions. The television can be a big distraction so try turning it off so you can develop a real conversation with your partner. There are lots of things you can do... maybe order yourselves a healthy takeaway so you can have a pleasant dinner with each other regularly. To make conversation more enjoyable get into the habit of sitting at a table too... because it makes it so much easier to converse properly than eating in an armchair!
Communicate effectively. The most important key to building a strong healthy relationship is communication. Effective communication requires you to be an ?active listener?, and that means listening without making up your mind, beforehand, on the outcome. Focus on what your partner is saying ?as well as expressing your own feelings in a constructive, honest and fair way.
Whatever you do, avoid being dismissive, ridiculing or rejecting your partner for what he, or she, may be saying. If you're feeling frustrated, and sense that you are getting angry, take a ?time-out', and agree to resume your conversation later.
Always play fair. Don?t expect to see eye to eye on everything because it just won?t happen. An important part of resolving conflicts is being respectful of your partner?s feelings, even when you are arguing. Even if you don't always agree on things you're discussing, let your partner know that you value what he, or she, is saying.
If you ever feel that you're 'losing it' and that you may physically harm your partner, give yourself some breathing space by walking away. If necessary seek some help and guidance straight away. You may invite a lot of trouble not to do so. Even though your temper may be getting frayed, step back and count to ten, or maybe even higher. It may stop you from doing something you might regret later.
Too summarize: remember to keep a smile on your face and take time out to smell the roses with each other. Work on communicating well; avoid being too critical, don?t ridicule and don?t reject or dismiss your partner out of hand. Just treat him, or her the way you want to be treated. With a large measure of dignity, fairness, respect. That way you will keep your sanity and have a lot more fun with each other!
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